Thursday 26 September 2013

Etiquette For Children Is No Child's Play

By Marla Mills


These days it is interesting to note all the different cultures within one area. People from all over the world live in many different areas and often one will find that in one area there are a few different ones in a particular placed. This is great and it makes for some interesting observation. Something that is important to note is the different etiquette for children these cultures exhibit.

Kids are like little sponges, they absorb everything they see and learn. One is easily able to see how the parents behave by simply observing the child. Kids learn from their parents and the other people in their homes. Youngsters without manners and who misbehave are only exhibiting what they see at home.

One cannot blame the child if he has no manners as he is only exhibiting the manners he sees in his home and environment. Should there be a lack of these in his home, he will also have none. Unfortunately this is quite sad as the child is frowned upon by other people when he has none and in many aspects this is truly unfair.

Should it be the case where the child is in fact poorly raised, he will know no better and not understand why he is in trouble. The idea when having children is to be proud of them and to be able to take them anywhere. If you do not teach him properly he will never learn and will always embarrass you with his poor manners and misbehavior.

When raising a child, you want other people to like him. It is not pleasant if other people do not like your child because he is ill mannered and impolite. People tend to avoid others who behave poorly and if your child is not nice to have around, other people will avoid your company if the child is with you.

The thing about misbehaved kids is that they are shunned by society. No one likes a misbehaved child. Other kids and adults alike will avoid a child who is behaving in an unacceptable manner. This is really quite sad as he is only doing as he has been taught. The blame lies completely with the parents. This type of thing is purely a situation of bad parenting.

There is nothing worse than going to a restaurant where there are ill mannered kids. They tend to run around and shout while looking at other people's food as they go past their tables. When you go out to places like this, one usually wants to enjoy a nice time out and if there are kids misbehaving it is very unpleasant.

Etiquette for children is very important as one wants other folk to enjoy his company as much as you do. A well behaved child is a pleasure to have around and everyone will react well toward him if he has good manners and knows his place in company. This is great and people will want to have you around them. Everyone wants to be proud of their children and the better you teach him, the more people will be accepting of you and your child. Acceptance is an important part of life.




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