How do you know whether or not your marriage is going to survive? This article may help you decide. If I made you pick one thing that would predict whether your marriage will survive or not, what would it be?
If you are like most people you probably said "fighting" because how could fighting be healthy for your marriage, right? WRONG
The truth of the matter is that it is actually the complete opposite. Studies actually have proven that avoiding fights with your spouse is sure fir predictor that your marriage will not survive. It's kind of strange how we try to avoid fighting with our spouse thinking that we are benefiting our marriage. When in fact we are doing the complete opposite.
Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not saying that you should go and pick a fight with your spouse. Starting fights for a happy marriage doesn't work either. I am just saying that people in healthy marriages fight. In other words, it is a sign that you truly love one another when you are willing to fight for your marriage. To be happily married, you just have to learn how to fight well.
A successful marriage is about learning how to master discussing your differences in a healthy manner. now this is not something that most come by naturally. It is something that we must learn how to do over time. But once you do learn how to fight properly then your disagreements can actually help you build a stronger bond.
Now you can agree or disagree with me here but every successful couple fights because whether we like it or not no to people are perfectly compatible. Keep in mind though, having your difference is very healthy.
The key to succeeding in marriage is not finding the right person; it's learning to fight well with the person you found. You'll have "irreconcilable differences" with anyone you pick. The question is whether or not you can learn to discuss them.
If you are like most people you probably said "fighting" because how could fighting be healthy for your marriage, right? WRONG
The truth of the matter is that it is actually the complete opposite. Studies actually have proven that avoiding fights with your spouse is sure fir predictor that your marriage will not survive. It's kind of strange how we try to avoid fighting with our spouse thinking that we are benefiting our marriage. When in fact we are doing the complete opposite.
Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not saying that you should go and pick a fight with your spouse. Starting fights for a happy marriage doesn't work either. I am just saying that people in healthy marriages fight. In other words, it is a sign that you truly love one another when you are willing to fight for your marriage. To be happily married, you just have to learn how to fight well.
A successful marriage is about learning how to master discussing your differences in a healthy manner. now this is not something that most come by naturally. It is something that we must learn how to do over time. But once you do learn how to fight properly then your disagreements can actually help you build a stronger bond.
Now you can agree or disagree with me here but every successful couple fights because whether we like it or not no to people are perfectly compatible. Keep in mind though, having your difference is very healthy.
The key to succeeding in marriage is not finding the right person; it's learning to fight well with the person you found. You'll have "irreconcilable differences" with anyone you pick. The question is whether or not you can learn to discuss them.
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