Have you been told that in order to use the Law of Attraction to its fullest potential you should think positive thoughts about what you want your life to be like. Once you feel sure that you will achieve your goal then your reality will begin to move towards that goal. How can you be positive and optimistic all the time though? What if you feel damaged or filled with doubts and fears? What if your nature simply isn't very positive all the time? Are you relegated to living a life where your dreams won't come true?
It's normal that we doubt. It's normal for some of us to be filled with fear. Some of us simply don't have the time to repair the damage that has been done to us by life yet we still want our lives to change. The fear of success and love and change can consciously and subconsciously overwhelm us. We might fear becoming wealthy because we worry that our friends and family will reject us or use us. We worry about getting our hopes up when it comes to romantic relationships because the rejection from that one person that we truly love would slay our heart. We worry about any and every sort of change until we feel paralyzed with fear and helpless to change or even dream of positive change. What if we tried harnessing that fear and used it to propel us towards our dreams?
When using the Law of Attraction it is often suggested that you focus on your dream and think about it with a lot of emotion. The emotions of love, passion and desire are the emotions that are usually focused on when people talk about the Law of Attraction but isn't fear an emotion? Fear can sometimes be a more powerful emotion than desire for some of us. As a result, those things that we fear the most are often manifested in our life more quickly and sometimes immediately. Fear that something will go wrong at work will often cause the unexplained to happen. Fear that a loved one will leave us will sometimes cause that exact thing to happen. You can probably look back on your life and remember a time when a fear consumed you and that very thing that you were so fearful of happened. This is simply the Law of Attraction at work but instead of positive, optimistic emotions it was fear that was the emotion behind the thought.
Now, what if you could recreate that kind of scenario in your life but use those negative emotions to bring the things you want into your life. What if you could turn fear in your favor and use worry to make your dreams come true. While being positive and thinking optimistic thoughts about your future might be your goal, if you are struggling with negative thoughts, why not bend those thoughts to help you instead of hurt you?
An example might be if you had a goal to bring love into your life. Perhaps you have someone in mind that you are attracted to. You are struggling to be positive about this person falling in love with you. You are filled with doubts and it's easier for you to think about all the reasons why things might not work out. No matter how hard you try, you are plagued by thoughts of rejection and loneliness.
Instead of being afraid of being rejected, why not try being afraid of this relationship coming to fruition? Think of how it would feel to wake up in the morning knowing that the person you loved was crazy about you. Your life would change. You would have more responsibilities. They would consume a lot of your time and you wouldn't have as much time for your friends or for yourself. What if they fell in love with you and they weren't as wonderful as you thought they were. What if they were clingy or jealous or if they smothered you with their love? Just think about being smothered by that person's love. Think about not having a moment alone or feeling as if they loved you more than you loved them. Oh the horror! Soon you will find that the thought of not receiving that love is gone and you're in a space where the love of your life not only falls in love with you but they consume you with that love. Fear has overwhelmed that doubt and now you have some powerful emotions behind that dream.
While it might be your goal to manifest the life of your dreams by visualizing everything working out as you might like, struggling with negative thoughts is no fun. You can still spend time each day visualizing your dreams and working on vision boards but when those negative thoughts invade your mind, try to use them to your advantage for a change. Use everything in your power to bring the changes that you desire. Instead of struggling or beating yourself up for being fearful or doubtful, turn the tables on fear and leverage it to your advantage for a change.
It's normal that we doubt. It's normal for some of us to be filled with fear. Some of us simply don't have the time to repair the damage that has been done to us by life yet we still want our lives to change. The fear of success and love and change can consciously and subconsciously overwhelm us. We might fear becoming wealthy because we worry that our friends and family will reject us or use us. We worry about getting our hopes up when it comes to romantic relationships because the rejection from that one person that we truly love would slay our heart. We worry about any and every sort of change until we feel paralyzed with fear and helpless to change or even dream of positive change. What if we tried harnessing that fear and used it to propel us towards our dreams?
When using the Law of Attraction it is often suggested that you focus on your dream and think about it with a lot of emotion. The emotions of love, passion and desire are the emotions that are usually focused on when people talk about the Law of Attraction but isn't fear an emotion? Fear can sometimes be a more powerful emotion than desire for some of us. As a result, those things that we fear the most are often manifested in our life more quickly and sometimes immediately. Fear that something will go wrong at work will often cause the unexplained to happen. Fear that a loved one will leave us will sometimes cause that exact thing to happen. You can probably look back on your life and remember a time when a fear consumed you and that very thing that you were so fearful of happened. This is simply the Law of Attraction at work but instead of positive, optimistic emotions it was fear that was the emotion behind the thought.
Now, what if you could recreate that kind of scenario in your life but use those negative emotions to bring the things you want into your life. What if you could turn fear in your favor and use worry to make your dreams come true. While being positive and thinking optimistic thoughts about your future might be your goal, if you are struggling with negative thoughts, why not bend those thoughts to help you instead of hurt you?
An example might be if you had a goal to bring love into your life. Perhaps you have someone in mind that you are attracted to. You are struggling to be positive about this person falling in love with you. You are filled with doubts and it's easier for you to think about all the reasons why things might not work out. No matter how hard you try, you are plagued by thoughts of rejection and loneliness.
Instead of being afraid of being rejected, why not try being afraid of this relationship coming to fruition? Think of how it would feel to wake up in the morning knowing that the person you loved was crazy about you. Your life would change. You would have more responsibilities. They would consume a lot of your time and you wouldn't have as much time for your friends or for yourself. What if they fell in love with you and they weren't as wonderful as you thought they were. What if they were clingy or jealous or if they smothered you with their love? Just think about being smothered by that person's love. Think about not having a moment alone or feeling as if they loved you more than you loved them. Oh the horror! Soon you will find that the thought of not receiving that love is gone and you're in a space where the love of your life not only falls in love with you but they consume you with that love. Fear has overwhelmed that doubt and now you have some powerful emotions behind that dream.
While it might be your goal to manifest the life of your dreams by visualizing everything working out as you might like, struggling with negative thoughts is no fun. You can still spend time each day visualizing your dreams and working on vision boards but when those negative thoughts invade your mind, try to use them to your advantage for a change. Use everything in your power to bring the changes that you desire. Instead of struggling or beating yourself up for being fearful or doubtful, turn the tables on fear and leverage it to your advantage for a change.
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