Friday 24 October 2014

How To Raise A Kid With Your Asian Wife

By Mi Hung


First, congratulations if you are just married to an Asian wife. The international marriage can be very rewarding, but gradually, you will be asked by one common question: when are you going to have a baby?

So you want to know what kind of things you should pay attention to for raising babies with your wife. Not surprisingly, if you ask your wife opinion about it, she will basically just follow her mother's advice. In fact, it's not only about parenting, but there are more things to consider. Let me show your some key points here.

Don't feel surprised if your Asian wife often follows her parent's advice I am not saying your Asian sweetheart is not independent. But in many countries in Asia, parents are a pretty important role in the whole family, even after their son or daughter is starting their own family. If you are deciding to stay in your wife's country, then getting used to culture like this becomes very important.

In most Asian countries, they will think the children of mixed western and Asian heritage are usually great looking. It includes great skin tones, wider eyes, and beautiful hair. In fact, many models in Asia today are coming from those mixed families. They are getting very high salary.

Talk to your wife about the language learning. Your children are likely to have a natural advantage of the language. Say, if your wife is Chinese and you are from UK, then your children can learn Chinese and English at the very early stage. It's a good idea to get your child to be bi-lingual. It's good for your children's future.

Deal with the culture difference with your Asian wife. Obviously you and your wife are coming from a very different cultural background. This will greatly influence your children if you do not handle it correctly. Something is OK in China might not be all right in the west. Make sure you and your Asian woman are on the same page when it comes to parenting.

Make sure you and your wife on the same page for discipline In my opinion, most women in Asia do not seem to fit to discipline children. They will simply allow them to do anything and buy everything the children want.

When it comes to discipline, make sure you know this. It says Asian girl do not know how to discipline the kid. Well, it's not that true. But you do want to make sure you guys are on the same page for different parenting issue. If you have an argument in front of the kid, it's a really bad influence.




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