Where does confidence come from? Is it something you are just born with or can we build confidence in time? Yes, some individuals just seem to have it. But as someone who had it, lost it entirely, and had to build it all back from nothing, I'm going to tell you that you can achieve some pretty interesting things with building some iron belief in your life.
Perhaps you have none in your life now, or that you just want some more because you know exactly how much it would help you with making decisions. But actually, where does this confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of enduring confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you really nail the small stuff, the bigger things get more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of concentrating on the small things that actually set us up for failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to deeply focus on the practicable measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals become put off when they try something large in life and fail. In fact , the majority will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some significant momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and over till you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a far better way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are really capable of extraordinary things.
But first, you must sweat the really small stuff.
Perhaps you have none in your life now, or that you just want some more because you know exactly how much it would help you with making decisions. But actually, where does this confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of enduring confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you really nail the small stuff, the bigger things get more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of concentrating on the small things that actually set us up for failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to deeply focus on the practicable measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals become put off when they try something large in life and fail. In fact , the majority will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some significant momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and over till you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a far better way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are really capable of extraordinary things.
But first, you must sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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