End your search for your other half.
Huh?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
So as an alternative to searching for your other half, look for someone who can be your teammate.
Look for someone who challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side, not your missing piece.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
The one and only one guarantee about this life is that things are going to change. Even the best relationships in the world are going to end and you are going to have to go on living your life. You will have to rise up to the challenges that losing loved ones bring you and be ready to continue on your path even though you may be grieving. This is a reality of life and it will never change. When you are a whole person, you can feel and hurt deeply and continue being yourself.
When we spend our lives chasing our dreams, working on ourselves, and loving other people fearlessly without any worry or doubt we can live our best life. However, when we see ourselves as incomplete and deficient in some way we undermine our own belief system and struggle to show up in this world as confident men and women.
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
Huh?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
So as an alternative to searching for your other half, look for someone who can be your teammate.
Look for someone who challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side, not your missing piece.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
The one and only one guarantee about this life is that things are going to change. Even the best relationships in the world are going to end and you are going to have to go on living your life. You will have to rise up to the challenges that losing loved ones bring you and be ready to continue on your path even though you may be grieving. This is a reality of life and it will never change. When you are a whole person, you can feel and hurt deeply and continue being yourself.
When we spend our lives chasing our dreams, working on ourselves, and loving other people fearlessly without any worry or doubt we can live our best life. However, when we see ourselves as incomplete and deficient in some way we undermine our own belief system and struggle to show up in this world as confident men and women.
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
About the Author:
Live your dream. Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about this daily journey of life. Dive into these Life Changing Quotes to inspire you to live your best life. Also, if you have a chance, check out these Strong Women Quotes to find that perfect teammate.
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