Friday 27 October 2017

Understanding Love Addiction Therapy Versus Sex Addiction

By Catherine Smith


When it comes to romantic relationships, there are those which lead to marriage, those which lead to divorce and those which many wish never would have happened in the first place. As such, love addiction therapy is now available for those which can not break free from the bonds of a past, or unrequited love.

Currently, there remains a great deal of controversy as to whether or not this type addiction exists. Although, for those who have experienced first hand the disappointment of repeated rejection, most will suggest the addiction is a reality. For, it can often be vastly disappointing when someone a person loves has no interest in a romantic relationship.

While this is the case, the definition when it comes to being addicted to love also includes having a compulsive nature which always require one to be in some type romantic relationship. In some cases, those addicted to love often stay in abusive relationships in fear of being alone. For, feeling alone and isolated when outside a relationship is one of the biggest signs of addiction when it comes to love.

In most cases, individuals effected by this type addiction include, having a compulsive nature that requires one to always look for, or be in a romantic relationship on a regular basis. In addition, always feeling afraid, isolated and alone when single is one of the biggest signs of this type addict. Mistaking chemical and sexual attraction for love are also common signs among people experiencing this condition.

While still controversial, there are now therapies which can help both type addicts overcome these urges. Some of these therapies include learning how to set and maintain boundaries when it comes sex. Whereas, others focus on learning how to achieve legitimate intimacy and build healthy relationships over time.

For, sex addicts often do not care about transmitting diseases to others. In fact, some deliberately sleep with anyone and everyone regardless of HIV or Hep C status. As such, it is imperative that those individuals looking for a romantic relationship are cautious, especially when coming into contact with someone having signs of being a sex addict. If having been involved with several partners, it is often advised that individuals get tested for both HIV and Hep C before becoming involved with others.

While most addicts of this type have experienced heartbreak and devastation when it comes to romance, it is imperative to build future relationships in which romantic interest is shared rather than one-sided. Otherwise, the individual is only setting oneself up for another heart break. As such, whether or not one goes through professional treatment, it is essential to acknowledge and understand how a partner feels about love and romance on a regular basis.

Ultimately, it is up to each individual to determine whether or not one is interested in a long-term relationship. Individuals going through a dating process need to clarify any intentions one has towards a commitment or long-term relationship as early on in the process as possible. For, while dating can be fun, falling in love only to discover it is a one sided love can often be more destructive than most people realize.




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