Sunday 23 December 2018

How To Know You Have Anger Management Problems

By Deborah Butler


Humans laugh, smile, cry and even get angry. Those are natural emotions that a normal human being feels. Likewise, people would really say that to you so that you can let your raw emotions out. Cry if you feel sad. Smile or laugh whenever you feel happy. Be angry if it frustrates you. On the last part, too much of anger can sometimes lead you to bad consequences. Not only you might physically or emotionally hurt people with that emotion, you might also became lost and uncontrollable. When that occurs, an anger management counseling Seattle is needed.

Whenever your best friend who you trusted most suddenly betrays you, you would really feel pain and some intense emotion from your heart. The loud palpitation might make you deaf after knowing her betrayal and your blood might began to boil as your fury is about to burst. That feeling is certainly anger. Anyone can actually feel that emotion too. And basically that is normal. However, it might not be label as normal anymore when it harms someone.

Let us have an example of situation. Hayley caught her sister, Lily, using her cell phone without asking permission. She was afraid that Lily will read her secret messages to her boyfriend. But Lily was stubborn and will not return it to her. As a result, Hayley became angry. In that situation, put yourself unto the shoes of Hayley. What will you do?

For sure, your answer would be stay calm and try to talk things out. That is ideal thing. However, for those people having some anger issues, that would not be their closest choice. Instead, they would immediately grabbed the hair of Lily and began beating the sister.

The most common one is expressing themselves like almost all the time in a livid manner. These people could find it hard to be calmer at expressing their emotions. When you met a person like that who keep on giving angry looks to many people and could not hold it, her or she had that problem.

Another one is aggression. People dealing with this could not control their aggressive behaviour especially when they are consuming some alcohol or used some substance. They might do some self-harm or perhaps began shouting and becoming violent physically.

When that problem is not treated, it would certainly affect the social life of a person. Telling them to calm down is not the right option. Venting it out is not even good since it will just worsen the anger emotion.

Anger Management Therapy can be done with a group or individual counselling. You would undergo some sessions in which you would be taught on how to control your impulse, meditate, self-awareness, strategies for relaxation and breathing techniques. Counsellors will also give you some coping mechanisms during the course of therapy. With a professional and healthy support, your issue will certainly be treated.

If this is also your problem, much better to seek a psychologist for this. Dealing with this might be hard. But if you have sincerity and courage to be well, this can be treated.




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