It was probably the momentum from a lazy winter, but for the initial couple of weeks of springtime, I was truly slacking on my fashion and grooming. I figured that I was doing things 80 % right, which must be good enough for my goals. I was getting laid and I still looked much better compared to most other dudes, so I figured I would be alright.
My results were pretty normal, however the quality of girl I was pulling was a little bit sub-standard. The amount of effort I needed to place in was likewise more than normal. Not very, but visibly so. Just recently, I enhanced my efforts to look fresh every single time I went out and the modification has been similarly noticeable. I've been acquiring additional eye contact from even more girls and they were much more receptive when I approached.
To reiterate, the improvements in my game were not huge, but they were prominent. I assumed it was just one more application of the "be attractive; don't be unattractive" proverb. However, a peculiar concept struck me one day as I was doing some bird watching with a couple of friends.
We were trading notes on the best ways to determine who the sexually generous girls are based on appearance alone. Jingly bracelets and earrings is good sign. T-shirt underneath a camisole implies don't bother. Tanning at the coast in a bikini means she's comfortable being naked. Floppy hat and long sleeves means you're looking at a premature old lady. Odd style plus no war paint means Chinese, which amounts to garlic breath and attitude.
A United States Navy officer was there with us that day. He had only been in Japan for a few months and his only input into the conversation was, "I'm just going to assume they're all sluts."
Then it dawned on me: Japanese gals have a similarly if not much more sophisticated sorting capability for Japanese guys, and a comparatively unsophisticated one for non-Asians. It's simply natural-- they spend their whole lives surrounded by and connecting with largely Japanese men. They recognize exactly how to detect a Japanese guy that cares for himself and one who does not. They will rapidly catch on to the nuances that show high or low sexual worth in a Japanese man.
I must note that when I claim that Japanese ladies understand exactly what a high worth Japanese guy looks like, I am referring to know-how on the subconscious level. This is an intuitive procedure, the outcome of a lifetime of monitoring and interaction.
This means if you resemble an East Asian, you need to look good or you run the risk of running into denial. Various other foreigners will certainly have a bit even more leeway to work their game given that an overseas face will initially delay Japanese females' automated filters. But, speaking from personal observation, the magnitude of this effect is minimal for most. Foreigners are require to look excellent to obtain Japanese women as well. Evident schlubs are turned down outright regardless of their skin tone and the white dude in the club with running shoes and cargo pants is still going the home with his hand.
Remember, this subconscious sorting works both ways. If he landed on the sexy side of it, an asian man could have a whole lot of success a lot easier and with more girls compared to his more exotic equal. If he does not, he will have to deal with a lot more obstacles on his journey to the promise land.
In a nutshell, if you're an Asian bachelor looking for a good time in Tokyo, you'd best come correct.
My results were pretty normal, however the quality of girl I was pulling was a little bit sub-standard. The amount of effort I needed to place in was likewise more than normal. Not very, but visibly so. Just recently, I enhanced my efforts to look fresh every single time I went out and the modification has been similarly noticeable. I've been acquiring additional eye contact from even more girls and they were much more receptive when I approached.
To reiterate, the improvements in my game were not huge, but they were prominent. I assumed it was just one more application of the "be attractive; don't be unattractive" proverb. However, a peculiar concept struck me one day as I was doing some bird watching with a couple of friends.
We were trading notes on the best ways to determine who the sexually generous girls are based on appearance alone. Jingly bracelets and earrings is good sign. T-shirt underneath a camisole implies don't bother. Tanning at the coast in a bikini means she's comfortable being naked. Floppy hat and long sleeves means you're looking at a premature old lady. Odd style plus no war paint means Chinese, which amounts to garlic breath and attitude.
A United States Navy officer was there with us that day. He had only been in Japan for a few months and his only input into the conversation was, "I'm just going to assume they're all sluts."
Then it dawned on me: Japanese gals have a similarly if not much more sophisticated sorting capability for Japanese guys, and a comparatively unsophisticated one for non-Asians. It's simply natural-- they spend their whole lives surrounded by and connecting with largely Japanese men. They recognize exactly how to detect a Japanese guy that cares for himself and one who does not. They will rapidly catch on to the nuances that show high or low sexual worth in a Japanese man.
I must note that when I claim that Japanese ladies understand exactly what a high worth Japanese guy looks like, I am referring to know-how on the subconscious level. This is an intuitive procedure, the outcome of a lifetime of monitoring and interaction.
This means if you resemble an East Asian, you need to look good or you run the risk of running into denial. Various other foreigners will certainly have a bit even more leeway to work their game given that an overseas face will initially delay Japanese females' automated filters. But, speaking from personal observation, the magnitude of this effect is minimal for most. Foreigners are require to look excellent to obtain Japanese women as well. Evident schlubs are turned down outright regardless of their skin tone and the white dude in the club with running shoes and cargo pants is still going the home with his hand.
Remember, this subconscious sorting works both ways. If he landed on the sexy side of it, an asian man could have a whole lot of success a lot easier and with more girls compared to his more exotic equal. If he does not, he will have to deal with a lot more obstacles on his journey to the promise land.
In a nutshell, if you're an Asian bachelor looking for a good time in Tokyo, you'd best come correct.
About the Author:
Japanese girls can be a mystery. They certainly were to me, and I'm Japanese-American. Fortunately, I figured out how to lead a life of romantic abundance in the land of the rising sun. Learn everything I wish I'd known about meeting Japanese girls back when I was a college graduate on my blog: redsunblue.com
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