In a world full of unlimited choice, adore those who go hard for you. Commitment is a very rare thing. It's one of the rarest things of all.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So rather than making a firm decision about what you want in life, you end up swimming in endless options and choices and never actually make a decision.
All of these options create confusion and chaos in our mind and it becomes a paralysis in of itself.
So when you really take a minute to look at someone who is chasing their dreams, you can begin to appreciate the rarity of commitment.
They don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to make a wrong decision and end up looking bad because of it.
Instead, they play it safe...and because they do that...
They of course avoid getting hurt...
But kill everything amazing they could experience or be in the process or really diving into something fully. Sure they don't have to face the cuts and scrapes of failure, but they never get to feel elated when they finally do win.
Most only realize that until it's too late. Way too late.
So you have to truly go for it. You have to put forward your best effort and really take a dive into your dream.
If you crash and burn, you learned. You learned how something doesn't work and therefore you have the ability to move forward and figure out a way that it will work.
That's the only way you can make a dream happen. That's the only way you can truly live instead of just survive.
And that...is priceless.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So rather than making a firm decision about what you want in life, you end up swimming in endless options and choices and never actually make a decision.
All of these options create confusion and chaos in our mind and it becomes a paralysis in of itself.
So when you really take a minute to look at someone who is chasing their dreams, you can begin to appreciate the rarity of commitment.
They don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to make a wrong decision and end up looking bad because of it.
Instead, they play it safe...and because they do that...
They of course avoid getting hurt...
But kill everything amazing they could experience or be in the process or really diving into something fully. Sure they don't have to face the cuts and scrapes of failure, but they never get to feel elated when they finally do win.
Most only realize that until it's too late. Way too late.
So you have to truly go for it. You have to put forward your best effort and really take a dive into your dream.
If you crash and burn, you learned. You learned how something doesn't work and therefore you have the ability to move forward and figure out a way that it will work.
That's the only way you can make a dream happen. That's the only way you can truly live instead of just survive.
And that...is priceless.
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