Saturday, 28 July 2018

Healthy Environment In A Union Of Marriage

By Jeffrey Jones


Nowadays separation after wedding is very common. Couples decide to depart and break their relationship even for small reasons. Probably communication could have solved the issue. Children are the most affected in this decision. The kind of get deserted. This also affects their psychology. There should be a mechanism to detect the divorce warning signs.

In certain marriages people might stay together for a longer time. During this period couples come to know each other in a detailed manner. Both sides experience good and bad side of each other. Slowly this converts to misunderstanding, unattractiveness, quarrels and litigations which finally lead to divorce.

Culture plays a great role in protecting a marriage or a relationship. It would be better if a person falls in love with the partner in the same ethnicity so that it would be easy to adjust along. Most issues occur due to cultural indifferences. People marrying in different cultures like a rich and poor family find it difficult to cope as time passes.

Domestic violence is another important reason for the relationships to break. One of the couple might adjust a lot to maintain the bond in marriage. Only when the aggression or the torture starts people look for ending the relationship as a last resort. Understanding in relation should not be one way, it should be from both sides.

Violence in families creates criminal tendencies in children, which can affect them in afterward. This also encourage anger, disobedience, fear, not studying, suicides, sexual abusing of friends, which later can take them to prison. Depression, anxiety and other mental stress or disorders are part and parcel of impact of violence and divorce in families.

Poverty and unemployment is one of the greatest problems among all the countries. Rich are getting richer day by day and the poor are left to suffer. They main reason if the society and government does not give them job as they are not educated. There is lot of professions like working in gas stations or stores and secure their life.

Occupations and complexity regarding earning more also creates problems in relationships. People having jobs in police and military, nurses, bartenders would have less time to share with their family. Wives making more money than their husbands are generally not appreciated by the spouse and thus create ego complexes that lead to separation.

Divorce proceedings in court are a tedious activity. When a husband and wife mutually concur for a separation it will be easily accepted by the court with mutual consent. Cost is not involved when both parties agree for getting departed. Child expenses can be shared between the parents based on the discussions. The counselors help the partners by giving motivation to start a new journey.

When the couples feel that their relationship is not going smoothly they should sit together and work out solutions. One should listen to their partners concerns and should help the person by giving suggestions or ideas to sort it off. At the same time the other partner also need to convey personal feelings for getting into a mutual understanding.




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