You find yourself walking down the street with no expectations, when you see your future girlfriend walking along minding her own business. She immediately catches your eye and your heart. You want to meet her, you want to go up to her, stop her and have a deep conversation with her.
But then you start thinking how she would react if a bum like you accosted her in the middle of the day, in the middle of the street. Because if a real bum were to accost YOU in the middle of the street, you'd feel harassed, annoyed, and/or a little bit scared.
Well, trying to stop a woman in the street is practically like that. Everyone wants to feel busy, engaged, and self important so a woman walking busily down the street is in a hurry to go somewhere not that terribly important. A stranger stopping her from her objective is comparable to a bum stopping you for cash. Because of the goal oriented frame of mind of the girl, the success rate of stopping and favorably engaging a woman is LOW. A girl doesn't want to be stopped. Even if they're going nowhere, they still think they're going someplace. The concept of approaching a girl on the road simply doesn't work.
So then What exactly should you do? Should you simply let that cutie walk along and from your life? No chance! There is a way, a much better way then attempting to stop a woman on the street. A way that makes the conditions to approach her much more favorable for success.
Simply, do not attempt to stop a moving target with a purpose ... follow her. Don't creep up on her, don't rush after her, and certainly don't stalk her! Just do some Mission Impossible recon and follow her. Follow her because people walking on the road are not walking far. If they're walking, they're walking to someplace close, otherwise they 'd be driving in their car. If you see a lady walking down the road, odds are good, she is going to somewhere close.
So be like 007, inconspicuous and cool, and trail her. Once she has stopped and you have ascertained her destination, you can now regroup and come up with a game plan. Depending on the type of location and atmosphere, you will have to adjust your opening but once she has settled down at her destination, you can approach her like normal in an environment that is much more conducive to approaching.
A stationary target is much easier to hit then a moving one. So be patient, get in touch with your inner 007, do some mission impossible spy work, and approach her at the right time.
But then you start thinking how she would react if a bum like you accosted her in the middle of the day, in the middle of the street. Because if a real bum were to accost YOU in the middle of the street, you'd feel harassed, annoyed, and/or a little bit scared.
Well, trying to stop a woman in the street is practically like that. Everyone wants to feel busy, engaged, and self important so a woman walking busily down the street is in a hurry to go somewhere not that terribly important. A stranger stopping her from her objective is comparable to a bum stopping you for cash. Because of the goal oriented frame of mind of the girl, the success rate of stopping and favorably engaging a woman is LOW. A girl doesn't want to be stopped. Even if they're going nowhere, they still think they're going someplace. The concept of approaching a girl on the road simply doesn't work.
So then What exactly should you do? Should you simply let that cutie walk along and from your life? No chance! There is a way, a much better way then attempting to stop a woman on the street. A way that makes the conditions to approach her much more favorable for success.
Simply, do not attempt to stop a moving target with a purpose ... follow her. Don't creep up on her, don't rush after her, and certainly don't stalk her! Just do some Mission Impossible recon and follow her. Follow her because people walking on the road are not walking far. If they're walking, they're walking to someplace close, otherwise they 'd be driving in their car. If you see a lady walking down the road, odds are good, she is going to somewhere close.
So be like 007, inconspicuous and cool, and trail her. Once she has stopped and you have ascertained her destination, you can now regroup and come up with a game plan. Depending on the type of location and atmosphere, you will have to adjust your opening but once she has settled down at her destination, you can approach her like normal in an environment that is much more conducive to approaching.
A stationary target is much easier to hit then a moving one. So be patient, get in touch with your inner 007, do some mission impossible spy work, and approach her at the right time.
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