"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why are we all so frightened to let go of things in our life?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We believe somewhere deep down that what we had is "it" for us and that we won't be able to find something that replaces what once was.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And another after that...
Until one day, someone will come into your life who refuses to walk away from you.They will want you and do anything to keep you. They will prove to you just how much they love you and you will love them right back.
And how great of a day that will be.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
Instead, you'll continue blooming.
Trust that.
Why are we all so frightened to let go of things in our life?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We believe somewhere deep down that what we had is "it" for us and that we won't be able to find something that replaces what once was.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And another after that...
Until one day, someone will come into your life who refuses to walk away from you.They will want you and do anything to keep you. They will prove to you just how much they love you and you will love them right back.
And how great of a day that will be.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
Instead, you'll continue blooming.
Trust that.
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