Monday 28 January 2019

Death And Using A Rabbi Funeral

By Betty Murray


It is never a pleasant situation finding oneself in when someone close passes away. A Rabbi funeral will be needed if the person was Jewish and this involves a wide range of to dos in order to get it done the proper way. There is a lot that must be abided by and a step by step process that needs doing to ensure that it goes off without a hitch.

There is a lot that goes into proceedings such as this from watching the body to washing it and preparing it for burial. When a Jew dies, someone called a shomer watches the body and at the same time says prayers from the book of Tehillim or Psalms. It is said that the soul remains connected to the body up until the time of burial and so a watchman is appointed so that the soul of the departed does not become stressed.

This is a customary practice that has been handed down through the centuries and is still practiced today. The body is washed too and prepared in such a way which is stipulated by Jewish Law. A pine coffin is used instead of expensive fancy coffins and sense of modesty is established in doing so.

The family is allowed the opportunity to sit with the coffin and to say prayers prior to burial. Once guests, friends and acquaintances arrive it is time for the ceremony to get started. It is a sad time for all and sometimes it is customary for a family member to say a few words before escorting the coffin to the gravesite.

After a words are spoken remembering the life of the deceased, pallbearers are called upon to escort the coffin. This list can be made up of family and friends and it is considered to be a great honor. It is an emotionally charged time of the ceremony as everyone gets to remember that part of life they were involved in with the deceased.

Once there prayers are said by the Rabbi and a eulogy is said. There are very definitive specifications of the grave itself as to how deep it must be and how wide. The coffin is finally lowered into the grave and more prayers are recited until finally a prayer called Kaddish is said by sons or fathers if the case may be that a child died.

Sons or Fathers are called upon to say a prayer called Kaddish in remembrance of the departed. The process of the whole ceremony can be discussed with a Rabbi who is well versed in ceremonies such as this. One should consult with the community as to who to get in contact with when this sort of need arises.

If one is not used to or does not know too much about these sorts of ceremonies then it is a must to consult with people who know. Laws must be adhered to and the only person who will know is this type of person. All in all it is a sad time and it is made easier in knowing that all was done correctly.




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