Are you singing the "I miss my boyfriend" blues? Women often have these feelings after they had time to cool off after a relationship has ended.
I know how you feel. We have all been there. We start to fish for answers from our friends and relatives without just coming right out and asking them "how can I get him back?"
I do have some helpful advice on how to get him back into your arms. This advice may not work for all couples since each relationship has its own dynamic. But these helpful guidelines will get you off to a great start.
Be Polite
When men get together and talk about their relationships with their wives or girlfriends, one complaint comes up often. It is nagging. When a woman nags a man, it is just irritating. So, politeness can go a long way.
I am not saying this is the case in every relationship but if this is one of the reasons why your boyfriend broke up with you, whining at him or nagging him will not help the situation to win him back. This will only reinforce his decision of why he ended the relationship.
Remind him of that sweet fun-loving woman you were when he asked you out on a date. I am not asking you to be a completely different person to get him to be with you again. But being nice and pleasant to him is better than being mean and surly.
Do you know what it was that attracted him to you? If you do, do it again, show him that side of you he fell head over heels for.
Think back to that moment and give him that same girl he met two years ago. If you think he is not worth the trouble to make a few personality changes, then you really need to rethink the idea of getting back with him.
Don't Play Mind Games
Playing mind games on your ex to get him to want you again is not a good way to repair a relationship. Such mind games are, faking a pregnancy or making him jealous by dating one of his friends.
Mind games and manipulation tactics almost never work and if they do, they cause more harm than good. He will find out what you have done and may not want to speak to you ever again.
Does Jealousy Work?
Making him jealous is a form of deceit. Date other people because you want to explore other options. Don't do it to try and hurt your ex boyfriend or win him back.
Maybe he wants you back but he does not have the courage to tell you because he is the one who broke it off. If he sees you with someone else, he may just go out and do the same. Now, you'll never get back together.
Is There Another Girl In The Picture?
If he has already emotionally moved on with someone else, your chances are slim in getting him back. Depending on how the relationship ended, he might just want to move on without looking back.
Or he really wants you back in his life but this female is providing him with a good distraction so he won't have to deal with his true feelings for you.
He might be trying to create jealousy in you to see if you still want him back. If this new woman means nothing to him, then you have a good shot at being a couple with him again.
If this new relationship of his is only temporary, then you have a real shot at winning his heart again. If this is the situation you are facing, try to catch him at his favorite hang out when he is by himself to talk to him one-on-one.
I know how you feel. We have all been there. We start to fish for answers from our friends and relatives without just coming right out and asking them "how can I get him back?"
I do have some helpful advice on how to get him back into your arms. This advice may not work for all couples since each relationship has its own dynamic. But these helpful guidelines will get you off to a great start.
Be Polite
When men get together and talk about their relationships with their wives or girlfriends, one complaint comes up often. It is nagging. When a woman nags a man, it is just irritating. So, politeness can go a long way.
I am not saying this is the case in every relationship but if this is one of the reasons why your boyfriend broke up with you, whining at him or nagging him will not help the situation to win him back. This will only reinforce his decision of why he ended the relationship.
Remind him of that sweet fun-loving woman you were when he asked you out on a date. I am not asking you to be a completely different person to get him to be with you again. But being nice and pleasant to him is better than being mean and surly.
Do you know what it was that attracted him to you? If you do, do it again, show him that side of you he fell head over heels for.
Think back to that moment and give him that same girl he met two years ago. If you think he is not worth the trouble to make a few personality changes, then you really need to rethink the idea of getting back with him.
Don't Play Mind Games
Playing mind games on your ex to get him to want you again is not a good way to repair a relationship. Such mind games are, faking a pregnancy or making him jealous by dating one of his friends.
Mind games and manipulation tactics almost never work and if they do, they cause more harm than good. He will find out what you have done and may not want to speak to you ever again.
Does Jealousy Work?
Making him jealous is a form of deceit. Date other people because you want to explore other options. Don't do it to try and hurt your ex boyfriend or win him back.
Maybe he wants you back but he does not have the courage to tell you because he is the one who broke it off. If he sees you with someone else, he may just go out and do the same. Now, you'll never get back together.
Is There Another Girl In The Picture?
If he has already emotionally moved on with someone else, your chances are slim in getting him back. Depending on how the relationship ended, he might just want to move on without looking back.
Or he really wants you back in his life but this female is providing him with a good distraction so he won't have to deal with his true feelings for you.
He might be trying to create jealousy in you to see if you still want him back. If this new woman means nothing to him, then you have a good shot at being a couple with him again.
If this new relationship of his is only temporary, then you have a real shot at winning his heart again. If this is the situation you are facing, try to catch him at his favorite hang out when he is by himself to talk to him one-on-one.
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